Discussion Group ~ March 28th 2014

[Mrs-Sett {Kuve}]

Our next discussion will be held Friday 28th March 2014 at (*note new time*) 23:00 GMT (UK) 18:00 EST hosted by Miss Sett {Kuve} and guests

Topic: A choice of topics is offered, namely:-

1. Practical advice on finding a suitable partner, including how to set up a proper profile, chat room courtesies and how to approach someone, whilst keeping yourself safe.

2. Transitioning from o/l to r/l, advice and safety protocols for your first munch your first club/play party, and your first private meet.

3. The distinctions between Dom/Top/Sadist and sub/bottom/masochist

4. Switching, what it is and isn't and how it can be used to increase one's ability at either side of the slash

5. How D/s relationships should reflect the same basic principles as any other relationship, trust, communication, concern for the other, and a willingness to take time to work out problems

6. The importance of fluidity in play dynamics and the idea that you can't expect your partner to just follow a script of your choice without deviation every time you play, it's essential that the needs of everyone involved be addressed and met.

7. Understanding the difference between the terms, poly and promiscuity, also bisexual, polysexual, or omnisexual

So please contact me if a particular topic is of interest. We will meet in the chat room lobby and then move to a discussion room.

Anyone wishing to suggest a topic, please reply to this thread ~ we welcome all suggestions and participation.

I know there maybe some concerns that the discussion will be transcribed or copied. This is not the case, it will be summarised only, relevant points indicated for those that cannot make the discussion time. I will endeavour to post weekly, where possible.

There is no password required to enter the discussion room.

Rules of discussion
1. No meeting/greeting each other after the discussion has started, period.
2. Serious replies please, with respect afforded to each other.
3. This is a discussion room, if people wish to chat or play, please return to the lobby.
4. No disrespectful language will be tolerated at all, nor will detrimental comments, each participant has an opinion. There are others present that wish to learn.

[jane pain]

Sounds like an excellent set of ideas and i would recommend coming to everyone, especially if you are a little newer like me!

[lorem angelum]

Looking forward to what I know will be another wonderful and informative discussion!!