Have not read this whole thread, but I have to say this. Legally, bestiality is always animal abuse. It does not matter if you instigate or just lie there and take it.
In what jurisdiction? These things aren't universal.
I'm not even angry, I'm being so sincere right now
Even though you broke my heart, and killed me
And tore me to pieces
And threw every piece into a fire
As they burned, it hurt because
I was so happy for you!