I finally had the chance to experience BDSM in real life, after fantasizing for so long.

I still love it! However, some things don't quite turn out like they do in fantasy...

There just seem so many little annoying things that crop up during a bondage scene, especially if done spontaneously, without prior planning. My nose itches. My hair isn't tied properly and it tickles my face. I need to pee. Etc etc...

Is that normal? Or is that just the beginning stage of easing from fantasy into reality? I find myself not being able to enjoy myself fully sometimes (even though the bondage really is good!) because I'm worrying about those nitty gritty annoyances...