Oh, my - this is interesting...

Does this make me the only male dom to be contradictory?

I'm a pretty social person, and I do generally try to accommodate others. Apart from certain areas (where I'm fairly confident I'm right, or if someone hits my hot buttons), I guess I'm not hugely assertive. So much so, in fact, that a couple of friends with whom I had just discovered a common interest in BDSM had me confidently pegged as a sub!

I suppose it might well be because the rest of my life frequently feels as if I'm out of control...goodness, what a horrible thought - that I might be taking out problems with my life on my romantic partners. Ew. Thankfully, I don't think that's so likely...I've wanted to do Dom-ish things since the earliest of ages, so I don't *think* I'm just taking out my issues on others...

Still - veee-ry interesting.