Punishment

[baldkate]

Dear Anna Kitty,

You were telling us that your Master needed to calm down. And that you felt to have upset your Dom or Master. We are not the same. I'm a submissive lesbian girl and I have a Mistress.

But that your Master needed to calm down tells me that he wasn't calmed down as he started to spank you. I can tell you, My Mistress spanks me too. But never when she is not calmed down. She is always fully in control.

You were saying, that you have upset or disappointed your Master. My Mistress is never upset or disappointed by me. She knows me and she knows what she can expect from me. So there are never surprises.

My Mistress spanks me. I think that is very good. Her spanking has made a better girl out of me. And her spanking keeps me being a better girl. I appreciate her very much for spanking me.

Kate

[just_ine]

I'm so glad you are reading through the old threads and responding. There is much to be learned from these threads!

She is always fully in control.

You were saying, that you have upset or disappointed your Master. My Mistress is never upset or disappointed by me. She knows me and she knows what she can expect from me. So there are never surprises.

I just have to caution an using such absolutes as 'always' and 'never' as you do in your answer. It misleads people in thinkingthat a Dominant partner is somehow super-human.

A person I considered a mentor a long time ago used to say: If you don't want conflict or disappointment, go and work with flowers.
People disappoint. It doesn't mean they are bad. Just that they are human.

And although I respect my Doms Very deeply, I have to be honest and say I have disappointed them, and they, me.

Just as no-one is always in control... However, when punishing, control should be a minimum requirement.


Just_ine