"non sticky interaction" i like that phrase! hehe

yes well some sort of compromise is going to have to be found......he's dominant in almost every other aspect of the relationship....in a aggervating way. i thirve off of punishment, attention, and rewards...i'm a brat. i can be absolutely perfect and i like to be......but not just the absolutle hell of it and without any sort of appreciation or gratification in return. when we tried the D/s thing he was all about chores and rules......but then he couldn't satisfy my painslut needs....which made it impossible to get chores done. if i didn't fold all the laundry he would just tell me i wasn't trying hard enough as opposed to actually punishing me.....

*sigh* maybe i'm all wrong.

i realize i can't stifle my desires anymore than igniting some that arent there for my husband.....but i mean, we're married. if we still can't come to a compromise about this, does that mean divorce? because he does love me uncondtionally, i have no doubt about that. but we view relationships differently. i fully believe you can love more than one person. i also have the ability to completely emotionally detach myself from sex and those involved. he doesnt.

*growl* someone kidnap me and shove me in a dungeon for a little while......i just wanna be spanked!