What is your fetish?

[theCARS1979]

you mean get over being confused as to why humiliation gets you off, or get over these ingrained, uncontrollable sexual proclivities that will be with you for the duration of your life in some form?

there is no shame.. embrace it with a trusted lover.. go slow, keep a sense of humor, and plenty of reassuring talk helps.. "don't be so nervous.." my man said this to me earlier when i was using a strap on, something i NEVER thought i would enjoy.. i am a lot shy and a bit nervous, but making him cum from penetrating him from behind was unbelievably arousing.. I was wet down to my knees..

i cant imagine how hard it was for him to ask me to engage in pegging with him.. i didint know what exactly it meant, though i had an inkling.. he ran out that night and bought a strap on for me.. by the second time using it, i had him cumming all over his stomach strictly from the penetration..

i feel silly walking about the apartment with a floppy dildo swinging in front of me.. but whenever he tells me he wants me to get "my toy" i am excited to try again..

i am submissive in every sense and act, even when i am in mundane society.. it was easy for people (especially men) to take advantage of me in my youth.. it was pretty traumatizing.. but i still cannot escape how utterly arousing those memories are, of being taken against my will, or told to shut up and held down by my throat when i protested.. it was something i desired on a level i wasnt ready to come to terms with at the time.. now, i am able to vocalize these things to my lover and am in no danger of being led astray by those who do not have my best interests at heart, or worse..

dont think. " i wish i could get over this bdsm stuff," and think, "i wish i could get over whatever it is thats preventing me from indulging these fantasies in a safe, sane, and consenting manner." may take a long time, but if you think that bdsm is the problem, you will never be satisfied fully.. its a part of your sexual personality..

thats awesome , you f**ked him with a strap on?! That sounds as if it went well and you had fun as he did too.
Did he enjoy it? I'd love to take it from a girl with a strap on. I'm so fascinated by it but I am new at this though.
Steve

[theCARS1979]

Yea I think I have a strap on fetish and want to get f **ked in the ass by a girl with a strap on. I think I would enjoy it and it would be fun. the girl can go easy at first and then go rough , hard and fast. I guess it has to be with the right one too

[jrockitt]

Love the ropes. Love to be tied and played with, teased and tormented. My last relationship was with a girl that understood that. Current relationship has not turned out the same. I can tie her up but she won't return the favor. So far.

[annie_rose]

Am trying to separate what the "norms" of BDSM are from the idea of a fetish. Ropes, cuffs, floggers, toys and such seem to be a part of what is accepted as a form of dominance or humiliation. So, beyond those, i'd have to say my fettish is being milked. Not just being a Hucow, but just the joy of knowing Her Dom/me feeds from her.. the ache of waiting for the feeding, and even milking during the day to keep my breasts full.

[jrockitt]

I think there are probably as many fetishes as there are people. I don't get off on feet, or spandex, or being peed on, but my very first sexual stirrings were from the thought of being tied or restrained, suspended or tortured. I was too young to respond to sexual thoughts or images, but I am still turned on by being in bondage or seeing someone else hung from the ceiling. The strap on talk was exciting me, but mostly thinking of being invaded while tied and helpless.

[jrockitt]

Exactly how I feel. And exactly the situation I'm in, except that she's backing off from being tied up as well. There is something about being tied and helpless that really rings my chimes. Any form of abuse or teasing is a turn on if I can't prevent it.

[jrockitt]

Failure To Thrive? Doesn't sound good.

[Beltbuckle]

you mean get over being confused as to why humiliation gets you off, or get over these ingrained, uncontrollable sexual proclivities that will be with you for the duration of your life in some form?

there is no shame.. embrace it with a trusted lover.. go slow, keep a sense of humor, and plenty of reassuring talk helps.. "don't be so nervous.." my man said this to me earlier when i was using a strap on, something i NEVER thought i would enjoy.. i am a lot shy and a bit nervous, but making him cum from penetrating him from behind was unbelievably arousing.. I was wet down to my knees..

i cant imagine how hard it was for him to ask me to engage in pegging with him.. i didint know what exactly it meant, though i had an inkling.. he ran out that night and bought a strap on for me.. by the second time using it, i had him cumming all over his stomach strictly from the penetration..

i feel silly walking about the apartment with a floppy dildo swinging in front of me.. but whenever he tells me he wants me to get "my toy" i am excited to try again..

i am submissive in every sense and act, even when i am in mundane society.. it was easy for people (especially men) to take advantage of me in my youth.. it was pretty traumatizing.. but i still cannot escape how utterly arousing those memories are, of being taken against my will, or told to shut up and held down by my throat when i protested.. it was something i desired on a level i wasnt ready to come to terms with at the time.. now, i am able to vocalize these things to my lover and am in no danger of being led astray by those who do not have my best interests at heart, or worse..

dont think. " i wish i could get over this bdsm stuff," and think, "i wish i could get over whatever it is thats preventing me from indulging these fantasies in a safe, sane, and consenting manner." may take a long time, but if you think that bdsm is the problem, you will never be satisfied fully.. its a part of your sexual personality..

Very well said, and I'm glad to hear that you and your partner seem both to know what you are doing. I like that he is leading from the bottom, at least sometimes, from what you describe.

[subrob99]

My fetish would be eating a creampie. After doing it a few years back. I find myself cuming too soon just to clean her out. Which always gets me ready to go again. My fantasy would be forced to eat another's.

[blueyed_slave]

My first fetish is ladies bare feet. Something about seeing bare feet realy turns me on. Even more so if they are smelly feet. I can't stop imaging sniffing and licking each toe and eventually shooting a load on them and licking it off if asked.
My other fetish is being naked and inspected in front of a group.