Consent is Meaningless Without Agency

[misty {HBMan}]

I couldn't agree more JD. That is another thread I plan on writing. I've been doing some research and will share that soon.



Regarding agency:

I think new people look at old, established power exchange relationships and see the level of control the Dominant partner has over the submissive one and they immediately want to unnaturally play at that level, imagining this to be what 'real D/s' looks like.

[The Jaded Dominant { koral }]

I couldn't agree more JD. That is another thread I plan on writing. I've been doing some research and will share that soon.



Regarding agency:

I think new people look at old, established power exchange relationships and see the level of control the Dominant partner has over the submissive one and they immediately want to unnaturally play at that level, imagining this to be what 'real D/s' looks like.

I agree but most do not understand is the depth and intimacy of these Old relationships.. the amount of give and take needed by both takes YEARS of being together with open honest communication...
A D/s relationship like any, requires time and commitment.. It is WORK Hard work and again communication.
J D