Wow – talking about posts going awry!

SirThumper (Bambi comes to mind – so sweet – did Thumper grow up?) do come back and talk to us. First post and we scared you away?!

It is interesting, this discussion, the feelings it provoked and generally the feelings about BDSM.

I was involved in BDSM (in my fantasies and in real life) for long time before I returned to college and took “Human Sexuality” elective – figuring out it will be an easy mark . And so it was – except having a teacher who gave a lecture declaring that people involved in BDSM practice are emotionally disturbed, psychically debilitated people that are not capable of having ‘normal’ sexual relationship. Woman of 50+, me (34) and a classroom full of 20 years! I did not have much choice but to let that one go (though, if a thought could kill – she would not be alive any more!).

At different times in our life’s, due to the circumstances we are in or have been through, we have different points of view and different reactions to things. Being mother/father of a minor changes your perspective from which you reflect upon fantasy stories involving minor characters. If one has been a victim of molestation as a child – the reactions will be very strong (and can go either way; from being drawn to incest/sex-with-minor stories to being completely appalled by the same).

One thing to keep in mind is (as kallie and boccaccio said) that what we are talking here about is fantasy stories. I have found and read (because I was looking for them!) stories here and on the other sites involving minors and children. To me, children are asexual, and having them involved in any sexual activity is not arousing, just prepubescent and teens are (in most cases in real life) at least sexually curious, which makes them fair game for story (in my mind).

As Cleo pointed out – good thing is that stories have codes! So you don’t need to read what you don’t like. For the Forum on the other hand – IMHO – the codes would be overkill. I see it somewhat similar as Movies vs. News on TV. You get your rating for movie, but News can be just as much disturbing (if not more in many cases) but one expect it to be kind-of edgy.

The story suggestion is cool in my opinion. Not exactly the same but on the same line (and close in the age category ) are Ninja Turtle stories. I would love to read the story that you are describing – why don’t you try to write it?

Good luck