This is true. He didn't seem overly dominant, at least not my personal view of what it is. Now that you mention it, I think I agree with you there. I guess that there are different levels of submission, and I could never go that deep. I mean there are too many things that I want that I would have to give up if put in her situation, things that I have strived for my whole life and am not about to give them up because they, too, define who I am.

I have always been a strong person, and actually was quite the forceful one when I was a kid. Granted I had an older brother who like to beat the snot out of me with all of his friends. Iliked O for the story value, but, like I said, it is not something I could see myself doing in my life...at least not with a HUGE fight because it would be just too much for me. I would feel like a prisoner, not a submissive.