Quote Originally Posted by Tojo
Right on Ruby.

When things were getting serious with my wife, I said 'there's something I need to tell you b4 we get too serious' I went & grabbed a handful of my bondage mags & showed her. She's still with me 18 years later. It was meant to be alright. The thing about me having so many girls hasn't always been as easy for her to accept, however.... Tojo
Tojo,

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I can relate to that. If T has asked for me to share him early in our marriage, I would have said no fracken way. That he lets me play Miss to my Nat is a huge deal. It could have been a marriage breaker if we were much younger, but T knows that T comes first. And, if T asked me not to be Nat's Miss, Nat and I would honor his wishes. Happily for all of us, he hasn't asked. Nat satisfies the "switchy" side of myself. Ruby

Dearest Tojo and Ruby,
Thanks for the insight, it seems that I go about things the wrong way - I was openly into bondage and exhitionism, etc from the start and now, at 34, had my first vanilla experience - I think it cuts both ways - again, I thank you both and hope we all get what we all want.
My love
Asia
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