Dear Asia.....this is the last I will say on the subject of the uncle. Being and adult when this happened you have to take responsibility for the actions. You could have said no. So you did something you regretted later. Who doesn't? THE ACT DOES NOT DEFINE THE PERSON. I don't know you but from all the love that is poured out to you, I have concluded that you have to be an awesome person. You have a very calm demeanor. You are articulate and if that is your photo on the string...your beautiful too. I do believe your true beauty, however, is in your heart. Forgive yourself and go forward. After all....forgiveness is for you. .....and keep hanging around so I can learn something from you. Love to you sweet Asia.