Nikki,
If you understand the emotional intensity of the rose thorn you perfestly understand what is happening in the Image. The coldness is the intensity of what happens between the main players. Intensity is the basis of all SM relationships, well those of any lasting worth. I wish I knew you in real life, your insight is everything that a real dom could wish for. I've asked you before but I'm asking again - are you owned by anyone? If so he or she is very lucky to have happened upon a person of such depth. All power to you and your pussy. *YN smiles and hardens*