I know there is no way to tell my family about this, I don't think my mom and dad would judge me but, the rest of the family would including my siblings. So we just keep our mouths shut and smile politely we they talk about how good their sex lives are, because we know better. I think there will always be people in your life that you can't tell. I also think there are a select few like here that you can shout to the moon about it. Saying that I like to think its a very exclusive club and everyone can't be told about it or it's no longer special.