Silke,

like shins i was thinking about this the other night. A friend and i were talking about sex and she was complaining about the sex between her and hubby was boring. (she calls her hubby 'the missionary man lol)

Well, after a few drinks, i confided in her that i like a good spanking. She looked at me like i just grew horns lol, and then she said "you mean in a sexual way???". Now, i tell you...how do you deal with people like that lmao!

i just got up and made myself another drink.

It does seem at times like you will explode if you dont tell somebody, it sort of eats away at you.

Thank god for the forums!