It can be anything you want it to be, aria.

Unfortunately no one can tell you what's right for you, but finding the right place is half the fun.

It's not easy finding someone, particularly one who wants the same degree of involvement & is into the same things. That's the key though, once you get some idea of what you want.

Check out Aesop's thread for beginners, in the 'Knowledge' section.

Have a look at www.submissiveloving.com -keep learning, & maybe try a little online play first?

Take it slow, & if it don't feel right, don't do it.

IMO any so called Master who becomes bored with his sub, is not that serious anyway & probably best avoided.

Let us know how it all turns out- we await with interest.

Tojo