Quote Originally Posted by aria_1
Is there a place where you can actually find a realtionship or is it all just play? If it is just play, then keeping your current Vanilla relationship is a justifiable reason and playing on the side would be even more justifiable.
Please advise.
Hi Aria,

It takes two to tango.
Two to make it happen.
Two to make it work.

Yes, you can find a relationship.
Yes, it can be just play.
It depends on what you and your partner want.

Playing on the side? That can break up the two of you.
Because now instead of two, there's three or more.
The green eyed monster named jealousy may appear and fragile egos need protection.

As we age and grow, our wants and needs change.

Ask yourself if you are seeking a partner to grow old with or a partner for play only.

Would you be happy with a dom who's married to someone else? Or do you want to marry your dom?
And a zillion other questions.

The more you know about yourself, the easier it is to search for a partner that can satisfy your needs and vice versa.

Ruby