Quote Originally Posted by aria_1 View Post
What I am really wanting to know is how happy people are who have made that decision to switch lifestyles, and how difficult it was in the beginning, and how they made it easier.
With the right partner it's as difficult as changing an outfit. Today you wear pants, tomorrow a skirt.

BDSM is something you can incorporate into your current lifestyle while you and your partner are making choices, do we want strawberry today or chocolate? As other threads have shown, it can be something you keep online, in the bedroom, or incorporate into your daily life.

Now if you are talking about submersing yourself in a 24/7 d/s relationship that's a whole different thing.

When you say "switching lifestyles" what does that mean to you?