Originally posted by bushman
I think you do become a little looser,,,, because it really doesn't hurt as much as it used to..


That's because you're getting used to it. Many dominants make their submissives wear butt plugs or participate in anal sex at least twice a week in order to "train" their anus. It does loosen it somewhat, but not significantly. Mostly, it just makes it easier for the submissive to take anal penetration without too much pain.

Think of it this way: Women can give birth to something the size of a watermelon and their vaginas still retain their natural tightness, despite that fact. Same thing for the anus. Just because you have something big going into it or coming out of it, it will stil heal and resume its normal state. Perhaps a little wear and stretch will show, but as I said in my ealier post, nothing very extreme, I would think.