My daughters are grown and have come to accept that their father and I have sex on a very regular basis and that I enjoy it.
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Now, how they would react to my "kinkier" tendencies, I'm not sure. I hope they are more open-minded than I would have been at their age.

My daughters started talking to me openly abut their sex lives after they got out of college. I knew I had to react with an open mind as I hear my babies tell me these things, so I pushed all the queasy feelings aside and listened and shared my own vanilla experiences. This sharing has brought us much closer.

I don't know if I will ever talk to my girls about my submissive desires, though.

I would be glad if I were you that your mom reacted positively to your collar. Maybe you will be able to talk to her about it without feeling queasy one day. Maybe it will bring you two closer.