Well I don't really have any childhood experiences which nicely foreshadowed the way I turned out but my first adult experience with bdsm was pretty nifty, since I managed to kill two birds with one stone. I'd been thinking of experimenting with another guy for a while, and eventually I got up my nerve to ask this guy a friend of mine knew. So I'm over at his place having my first gay experience and I joke about how his bed'd be pretty convenient for tying someone up to. He just grins and says "Well actually...", before pulling a box of goodies out from under the bed, and it was on for young and old.
So yeah, fun all round. And since this is a BDSM forum, you guys'll be happy to know that fun though the whole other-guy thing was, it's a night that I'm always gonna remember mainly as my first bondage experience
Rallan