i had meant to post in this thread earlier...

congrats on settling down with your new name. I had wondered why subwife became Superbitch ( am I the only person who knew that was what happened, everyone else seems surprised...), and it's nice to hear the story and know that you're now at a place where you can tell it
But I have to confess that I never saw SB as Domme...

Talia is the name of a very tough lady in a series of books I know. Strong and capable and gifted with a very high degree of empathy. Suits you.