koppite727,

I tenatively mentioned abuse on this site a while back.I was horrifed at the number of incidents where trust has been betrayed and hearts wounded, if not permanently shattered.

The common thread running throughout the tales of recovery is always that the abusee had someone to talk to, a shoulder for support and some good old-fashioned LOVE. There! I've dared to use the "L" word again.

Stick with this Forum, my friend, and you will receive an out-pouring of warm feelings and love from here. There truly are some special people who understand your situation and who can help.

As for your current position, I have to agree with my fellows above-you have to cease this relationship. You have clearly stated your feelings to her and she has chosen to ignore them. This is not a healthy or alltogether sane relationship-and must be terminated.

I sincerely pray that you stay on here and that your life becomes your dream.

Ed.