Coming from someone who has children, I would tend to agree with fethis101 and game. Sexual activity should be limited to times when the little ones are not around as well as other activities ie: spankings.

I will try to teach my daughter to be open minded, to not be afraid to try new things, but I will leave it up to her to discover them.

From personal experience, it is not easy living a BDSM lifestyle with a child. You quite often try to do things together when the kid is down for a nap, but it usually happens, without fail, that he/she will wake up in the middle of it and want to be fed. Nothing kills the mood faster.

Not that I am saying that she is an imposition. She's not. It just makes living a 24/7 lifestyle pretty much impossible. I my opinion. It's hard to say what will happen in the furture when she is a little older.