I think there are always people who are searching for what they want subs and doms alike. They think they know what they want or how it would feel but when it comes down to it it's not what they really want at all. Some people enjoy playing games online and pretending to be what they are not for many reasons. Welcome to the internet and life.

Its tough for anyone in any type of relationship to weed through the bullshit and figure out what is real and what is not. Its not something limited to subs or doms for that matter. It comes down to your instincts, asking questions and if you don't like the answers say good by and move on.