Koppite - I have just logged on having returned from being away over the weekend, and your last post is a heartwarming welcome back to Forums. I am so pleased to read what has happened in your life so far and congratulate you for being strong in a very difficult position.

I remember chatting to someone in a similiar position a couple of years ago, and he found it hard to stay away from the abusive mistress he had left. I tell you this as a warning, in case you find yourself being tempted back. You have done the hardest bit now, but please don't be tempted to go back to her for dinner parties, occasional play sessions etc., at least for sometime. They could be a crack through which you could fall taking you quickly back to where you were.

Wishing you happiness and contentment
cariad