I agree... and to the topic of the inexperienced vs. the posers... it's the difference between the verb "wannabe" and the adjective "wannabe."

For those who want-to-be subs (or doms) we should all be open and helpful. For those who pose, the 'wannabe sub' (or 'wannabe dom') you all would be much happier fessing up and finding some mentors to guide you in discovering what part of the lifestyle fits you.