“I find this, to be frank, too black and white a definition.”

I did say majority, I was careful there… I know its not the case all the time, only was referring to it to clarify what I was defining as easy. Power exchange can range in different forms, but I am avid that it cannot happen online for various reasons- not to say that an online relationship can be worthwhile and meaningful***.

“All of your post is quite clearly geared from the thinking that if it asin't 24/7, it's not quite good enough for you.”

Ack.. not the tone I wanted to assume… Again I wanted to point out how I thought online was easy because you cannot have that kind of control that often, theres not as much responsibility involved, as majority of the subs time- she/he takes care of herself.

When I mean 24/7 its not necessarily having to do with what can and cannot be done- rather having the presence of your Dom, being able to be controlled because the Dom is there. And the Quotes made only to reinforce my idea that online relationships are significantly easier than real life.

I’m only saying that.. I don’t believe enjoying whipping someone or having cyber slaves makes one a dom, and I don’t believe wanting to give yourself to every man and call him ‘Sir’ makes one a sub. I don’t think it is that simple. Theres more Complexities to domination and submission, its not about putting on a façade to give one an ego boost or get attention. It’s a way of life.

My post wasn’t meant to offend or put anyone down- only to argue why I believe online relationships do not carry the same complications as real ones. Fantasies and Power exchange are for different people, and they can be equally damaging and dangerous for the wrong person.

I’ve had a few online.. one tried moving into real life (2 years long) and that was… not pleasant…