I see where you're coming from. No real worries here. It's been an interesting debate, so far. Yo udo make some very good points.

"I’m only saying that.. I don’t believe enjoying whipping someone or having cyber slaves makes one a dom, and I don’t believe wanting to give yourself to every man and call him ‘Sir’ makes one a sub. I don’t think it is that simple. Theres more Complexities to domination and submission, its not about putting on a façade to give one an ego boost or get attention. It’s a way of life. "

I actually agree with this 100%. This journey has been the most complex thing I've ever undertaken.