Originally posted by BDSM_Tourguide
I believe the word you're looking for is 'satisfy' her.

That's all that giving into a brat does is satisfy her needs and give her what she wants. One could even say that, in some cases, brat subs top from the bottom, pulling their dominants' strings just to get the results they want.

I don't go for that sort of thing.
Personally I believe that its harder to be a Top/Dom than a bottom/sub. We have to be the creative ones, coming up with new and devious ways to "satisify" our subs. Pushing their boundries without breaking them, taking them to their limits and then pulling back.

Personally I see nothing wrong with a brat "topping from the bottom", since were both getting what we want. At the same time however she has to realize that this is a fine line. If the Dom is not satisfied then the play is one sided, and ruined for both.