The purpose of being a submissive is to be submissive, not to play little mind games and act up to get what you want. That's called being childish, not submissive... and this is coming from myself as a submissive.

Topping from the bottom is in no way submissive. I do not understand this attitude of, I am submissive but you have to break me first. What? If you have to be broken into submission, you are not a submissive. If you are being broken into submission does that not mean that you are unwilling to be a submissive, to do things against your will? There for, in my opinion, would that make a submissive or a "victim"?

Just a thought or two from my brain. And keep in mind, these are my opinions.