Originally posted by Finding_Fantasy
However, I do not believe that being a Dominant is any harder that being a submissive.
Very profound FF! I guess it depends on your perspective. I don't like hurting women per se' I like hurting my sub because I know she enjoys it. Everytime we push a limit it seems to bring us closer. The more intense the sex, the more intense our relationship becomes. At the same time, I would never ever hurt her outside of her own boundries. Everytime I plan something new...which she has come to expect...I agonize over whether or not I am overstepping a limit.

I'll be the first to admit that in the bedroom...it's always harder on her. But mentally I can spend many more hours worrying about a scene then she spends suffering through it.

We have only been "in the scene" for just over a year which I suppose makes us newbies...but I have enough shit spinning in my head to keep her tied up for the next ten years (no pun intended)

Poor me (or poor her) like I said, it depends on your perspective!

I love this site...you guys keep up the good work!

PS. We just started taking pictures last week when I introduced her to her new nipple and clit clamps...I'm hoping to start posting them soon...when I have her Ok.