*carefully looking around trying not to step on someones foot*

as it has been said, submission can be a hard thing to come to terms with (and i'd wager being dominant can be too) it's easier to be bratty so that you feel like you don't have a choice about submitting
what about people who switch ?? There's no coming to terms with one side or the other. God bless the day i call myself a true dom or sub...


It's still a very submissive quality. You are, after all, essentially giving your body to someone to do with as they see fit, but it's not the same thing as being a 'complete' submissive that enjoys serving a dominant person for the gratification of serving.
For me, and i admit it's still just a fantasie, i enjoy serving a dominant person to the best of my abilities...but only in a sexual way.
Moreover, i only like to dominate women who are considered "strong". It's the reversal of that image in the sexual sphere that i find exiting

just my two cents

regards

D9