Oh, I'm into all the usual/same - adore to be constricted, corsets, bonds, love giving head, feeling his hands in my hair forcing himself into my mouth and throat... very much agree with Asia about strangulation, wow, God, yes -excuse me, got sidetracked a moment there -

But I think my little extra pleasure is being reminded of it during non-play, public time. Just little things, in public - maybe in a shop, he'll look at a belt, touch it and ask me if I like it, with a lifted eyebrow... knowing I get a rush from imagining him using it, and another extra rush from fear of people around us guessing... that sort of thing. Asking me questions which might sound innocent, but have such overtones - when we're at my parents for example, I don't know, maybe just saying 'Would you like to lay the table, sweetie?' could do it: just the right tone of voice, and using my pet name: I know he's making me think about clearing the table and getting my cuffs out for him to attach me to it. Oooh. Wonderful.