For TG and myself, I don't think that it will be much of an issue. We talk everything over whether it be in our d/s relationship, our role as husband and wife, or being mommy and daddy. Our choices are not made because he is the dominant and I am the submissive.

Our choices are made on what is best in the long run for all involved. TG treats me as an equal and I have equal say in the matter. If there is something that needs to be hammered out in our D/s rleationship, then we do that in private, but if it has to do with anything regarding how our home is run, we are on equal footing. I am definitely no doormat despite being submissive. I express my opinions openly and TG takes them seriously and weighs them as though I am a human being and not simply making noise. If I have a valid point, he will concede or express his opposite opinion. TG helps with the chores, helps with the baby and so on.

So, despite our alternative lifestyle, in a way we are no different than any other married couple. Granted, we are not 24/7. That is just not possible for us, so the exposure our daughter will have of our D/s lifestyle will be minimal.

I don't know if I explained myself very well. If this doesn't make sense, please feel free to ask any questions!