bottom line, ID. i love you. more than anything. and we are solid as a couple, a unit...a family. i love being yours...in marriage or whatever. its just that simple. i do..have 'needs'..i don't know what they are at this point. so its hard for me to tell you ... although i have thought about it long and hard, there is no definitive answer. perhaps i'm selfish. perhaps i should just cherish what we DO have rather than mourn what we don't. and i do, actually...you are..my best friend. and that...is more important that papers, rings and collars in my book.