"I am a mechanic, highest formal education achieved is high school. I believe I have an average intellect. She on the other hand is near genius. Don't remember the score she got, but I know it was dammit high."

ID, love....give yourself a shake. Everything that you post on here is insightful and wise. I don't believe for a second that you are incapable of getting into your subbie's mind.

All it takes is for you to believe it.