Quote Originally Posted by bushman
anglestar, sounds like you need someone to "expand" you limits a bit. someone that you trust completely to be gentle with you and someone you can just give yourself over to.... with love and trust, you can play safe and find new ways to enjoy.......
i think you just described the ideal relationship situation


i know i’m kind of late into this thread but would like to share my experience with anal. My first husband knocked me around then sodomized me telling me to get used to it; i was to young to understand and didn’t get accustomed to the abuse.

Many years later i met a fellow who used a different approach and i really enjoyed the anal experience. He gave me a couple of clitoral orgasms then inserted a vibrator in my vagina before penetrating my anus. In addition to a whole lot of patience, he used lots of lube and a small, hard plastic vibrator to get started with the anal and kept up with the foreplay until i backed up onto him.

i like the use of condoms simply because clean up is easier and faster so we can move on to other things. i read somewhere that condoms are important for anal sex because of some bacteria that can get into the penis. Also if you switch from vagina to anus you’re not transferring anything to the anus but my obgyn did say to never, ever go from anus to vagina because it can and will cause vaginal infections.