Thanks to all of you for the advice and humor. And yes, Cyndylu, I agree that it is something that needs to be done with a little consideration (at least at first). At 45 years old I've had more than one prostrate exam from a doctor and I can't say I found it very exciting. Although the last time, in the middle of the exam, I looked back at the doctor and said "You know...I usually buy someone dinner before I do this to them!" I actually got a chuckle out of him!

LOL...if nothing else, this will give me some incentive...come the weekend I'll say "But honey we have to...redEva, slavelucy, Cyndylu and all the people from the bondage web site are waiting to hear about it!"