wow..slightly overwhelmed by everyones concern and support...*takes a breath...opens a new browser and begins to respond*

annie said: Calling/emailing her out of the blue and adding a bit of spice... such as "clamp and cum in two minutes." Or writing him a note (or researching a new level of kinky) and emailing/calling him and begging for it to happen?

well YUMMY...that sounds great. i like those ideas a lot..thank you

fantassy said: Example, every time she goes to the bathroom, she must stop and restart peeing at least three times to demonstrate ID's control of her.

YES..something like that would be perfect. that's exactly what i seek. the small daily reminders of what our relationship was founded on.

echoes: thank you for your kind and supportive thoughts...the love we have for each other is unwavering. it makes me all warm and fuzzy to know that it shows..thank you

Oz: oh my....*just squirms...trying to peek over ID's shoulder at the pm*

Tojo: exactly. its got nothing to do with educational levels. ID reads. a lot. His education may not be 'formal' but it is ongoing. daily. i am so proud of Him and His desire to grow, as a human being, a husband, a friend and a Dominant.

learning: thank you for your words. and i had no luck in reading the pm about the clothespin. darn it. but will let you know when/if it happens *grin*

in closing: again i want to thank each and every one of you for your support and wisdom. i so enjoy reading other peoples ideas, and finding a way to tweak them so they 'fit' us. my life with Him is perfect in every other way. but my soul craves the dominance He once had over me. i am so very lucky to wear His collar...and i know there are so many who seek what we have. i feel fortunate to be owned/married/loved by Him...

as He reads everyone's posts...He asks me "what do you think about.....?" "what do you think about..........?"....that is part of the problem. don't ask me! just DO it! i dont' want a lot of input here..that's the whole idea, ID...to have 'options' removed. to do things cuz YOU want me to ... not cuz i want to or don't want to...i know you are trying to be considerate...but STOP that LOLOL don't ASK me if Oz's idea appeals to me....just DO it and find out...

i love you ID... and my warmest wishes and thanks go out to all our 'friends' who have, and are....showing great concern and support...