Quote Originally Posted by delia View Post
if i were you, i would take a time out with your Dom, maybe each of you write down your feelings and thoughts, and then talk it out.

Just my two cents.
phantassy - i agree with delia about writing it down. i was asked to keep a journal. i am not much for analyzing my feelings and writing them down, it somehow makes them too real. at first it was hard to do. actually sometimes it still is....

however, writing in the journal always seems to have a positive outcome. it gives us both time to reflect on the issue. i get to write down the things that are sometimes difficult to say "in person." he now has a way to see things from my point of view. usually, in our next time together, he'll find a way to bring up my concerns and it always makes me feel better when we've worked through that.

by the way, keeping a journal isn't always about the concerns...it's solidified many of the positiive aspects of the relationship as well.

good luck! cookiecat