Now, I have only so far experienced on-line submission and am still fairly new to all that could entail. However, I have to say that to me it is real, if not different to real life submission. I have never thought to fake any reaction or to keep any feelings to myself. I figure that if I did that, I am only cheating myself. As TW said, it is a mental decision, and it shouldn't matter where you are or in what situation you are in, for the submission to be real.

Now I have plans to meet Tojo in real life, and though I know this will produce different feelings and situations, our online time will have allowed us to build a solid base for our time together.

I know before this last year, I could not have comprehended how amazing online relationships can be. If both parties are honest and genuine, it can be a truly wonderful experience.

Talia, I certainly do not think you are less of a submissive due to your online relationships. I am sure, like me, you have been honest in these relationships and have grown as a person because of them. It is just a different experience, that in no way make the submissive any less than a real life sub.

Sheepish, I also agree that we go through the same emotions and frustrations as in a real life relationship. I have experienced highs and some lows, that were very real! I also echo your point on being able to be more open online, I know that is very true for me. I have never, ever been so open and honest in my life! It is wonderful.