I think Tom says it pretty well actually. I ride a Jap bike & hear how terrible it is from the owners of a 'certain brand of American motorcycle'

I cry myself to sleep every night, burning with shame for not doing exactly as they do....

This whole year I've been consumed with guilt- am I a real Dom? Are my strokes with the flogger hard enough? Is a 24/7 relationship with 10 slaves enough?

If I have a harem with male & female slaves, am I a lesser being for not having a few transexuals??

This is the one thing that makes me groan & grind my teeth in the D/s community- the divisions. We carry it right in from the outside world- where we're categorised into rich/poor, young/old- racial groups etc. etc. ad infinitum.

I'm still waiting to see the D/s rulebook- until then I'll happily believe that if you think you're a subby you probably are one. Anytime I feel like a good laugh I'll go back & make another post on one of the forums run by those who have forgotten what 'fun' means.

Funny- no one ever replies to my posts there....

Tojo