Oh Lord.

Anyone who has read this far and has NOT spontaneously combusted deserves a medal. All of this sexspeak has me red of face and hard of pants... It's so refreshing that you are all so honest about your kinks and turn-ons. I'm really enjoying reading about them. I am a complete NOVICE to BDSM. I've never done it. Maybe I never will. But I love fantasizing about certain aspects of it - probably more of the lighter stuff. I love reading porn literature as much as pics/vids? When it's in your mind it can often be 'more' real (if that makes any sense)...

I'd love to find a girl here that could show me the ropes (no pun intended) and strike up a regular correspondence with. Oscar Wilde once said that men love with their eyes and women with their ears. What women 'hear' is so so important. That's why I'd love to exchange ideas with some girl here as it would be a real mindfuck (for the girl, that is)...Oh well, all in good time...

Here are some of my fetishes. Or maybe they aren't technically fetishes but more little kinks/turn-ons (or maybe it's all the one). Anyway, enough rambling. Here are some of them. Some are very pedestrian, some are not:

1. GIRL TEASING MY EARS: Stroking the lobes, fingers lightly slipping into my ear. Kissing my ear and giggling, laughing, whispering, breathing on my ear, teasing it with her tongue. All warm and slippy. I fuck her. She tongue-fucks me. Oh Lord...even writing about this. After my cock this is my most erogenous zone.

2. LEGS/FEET/SOCKS: Bare feet but not toes. I love the round, ball-like softness of the foot. They must be very small, shapely and pretty (which is not too common, I think). I love ankles also and the naked, smooth instep of a girls foot. Sexy, girly socks make me harder than I can say. Teasing my legs/cock with bare/sock foot gets sends me into the stratosphere. Especially if girl licks her lips, bites her bottom lip or sucks her fingers and generally acts the naughtly little coquette...

3. SPOKEN WORDS: I'm sure a lot of you can relate to this. I simply love a girl who talks dirty. Finding a cute little (black-haired, full-lipped, petite) honey who rolls profanities off her tongue would be my dream come true. Someone who whispers into my ear during a formal social gathering words to the effects of "Why don't you take me into the bathroom and fuck me like the good little girl I am?...this little fuckhole is all yours" (...and with an offer like that WHO could refuse?). Generally incongruous unexpected words of abuse are so thrilling. Pretending to be a good little girl when she really is a bad little girl will always merit special treatment.

4. FULL, RED LIPS: With just the right amount of lipstick.

5. NICE SMILE: Especially the smile of a girl who loves to tease.

5. ICE: Teasing a girl's nipples with ice. Dragging it along her bare sides and along her bum so that rivulets of icy water drip into her sex and anus and make her moan.

6. NICE HANDS: With light nail polish.

7. NICE EYES: Brown or blue and doe-eyed, all naieve and innocent.

8. SCHOOLGIRLS: Need I say more?

9. ICE CREAM: Girls eating ice creams. Alll lips and tongue and eager little mouth movements...oh to be an ice cream...

10. FIGHTING: Nothing like making up after a storm. Nothing like the release of that fuck. And isn't it great to thrust really hard so that it 'nearly' hurts her but it's all within limits...it's like YOU are controlling HER pleasure.

Well FOLKS, that's all for now. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Guess all this is farily common to you all, is it?

Cheers
enchanter