Could you do what your partner does?

[_ID_]

In a way I think its something the Dom should experience, just because it can be fun and allow him or her to taste what its like on our end,

I believe this was the thinking of the Old School Dom/mes and submissives if I understand the history correctly.

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[Daes]

I believe this was the thinking of the Old School Dom/mes and submissives if I understand the history correctly.

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O? Thats interesting =) This a good thing or bad thing hehe

Though, I actually wouldn't want a Dom that wanted me to switch often, it'd make me feel out of place and awkward depending on the situation- because I wont know what the heck Im doing :/ I can understand goofing off every once in a while, but going into more extreme forms of pain? Eh... I dont know about that, I dont think I could bring myself to go beyond some light pain play.

[vampyres{ID}]

I could if they really wanted it, I was raised as to be strong willed, and I have no qualms about hurting people (Don't get off on it but it really doesn't bother me). But it isn't my thing and if I don't have to Ill choose not to.

[vampyres{ID}]

Ok I change what I said, I found out my husband has some sub tendencies and wanted to switch with me, I tried it, failed miserably and now I feel like shit, both because I couldn't go through with what I promised, and even worse because he wants me to try it again. Really odd from me, because I have kicked the crap out of guys both literally and verbally, guess I just can’t do it to someone I love and respect.

Well now I know why he can’t stick with being Dom at least, which makes me depressed, guilty (For being depressed) and frustrated. (Finally got up the nerve to admit this, and realize I am never going to do anything more then part time play, which is really bumming me out)