Sometimes I've thwacked my dom in play, not very hard at all, but enough to make him go 'ow!'. Then I laugh at him, say 'aw, muffin', similar bratty platitudes.
Of course I then end up with a very frim demonstration of the differences between a sadist and a masochist.

The guy I used to be with was switchy. We rarely did it because I'm almost incapable of switching, but when we did I proved that I can dom a little, but have no taste for inflicting pain. and I could never ever do any humiliation play, or anything along those lines from the other side.
So no, I couldn't do what is done to me. And my current dom at least for sure couldn't take it.