I am in an odd situation. neither of us seem to be into deep pain.
I've been sub roles and i don't find that i get so turned on by recieving.
I am sometimes torn over what to do, as i worry over the pain infliction to a point. I am building trust and watchin pushing limitations for all involved.
I'm fairly new to being Dom. so admitting this is a huge step that i learn from both sides...
of course i said that when i started posting. learned a lot since then.