Hmmmmmmmmm........

Well, I can see where this may cause some issues, although, I have no earth shattering wisdom, just be sure to keep your position in Mind ID, I personally dont have a list of things or micro manage, hardgirl is a very good girl, so shes very motivated to please.

I DO however at some point during the day, REMIND her of her position, mentally and physically, just the way I'll "ask" her to do something, walk up behind her make her stop what shes doing to accept My atten., etc...

I'm not into punishments, for instance, she dropped a pickle jar, spilled the juice all over, she cleaned it up, so what, I'm going to make her use a toothbrush on the toilet?

I WILL however address her attitude if I detect a disrespectful tone, leftovers from the nilla days lol, I love to see her demeanor change. I will at any time I choose bend her over, and take her, thus reminding her of her position.

So all I'm trying to convey, is, IMO, its alot of little things that keep this D/s relationship fresh, you dont need to make a big production, you DONT ALWAYS have to have an official play session, you DO need to remind, and reinforce what IS, and that is You are Master, she is slave.

ID, dont bullshit yourself with this I'm a mechanic crap, so am I, among other things, and it takes every bit as much intelligence to do that in most cases as any other career and more than many careers.

Assume your role, take from her what shes giving, herself, you'll both be happier!