I haven't been in here for so long. I ended up setting up two pages. I had an original page before I got into the life. So when I decided I wanted to add friends from here and others with similiar interests I made another page. I have it set totally private and it is impossible to view anything. My blogs are preferred friends which is set up as a journal for me to refer back to on my experiences and training. I don't have a picture of myself as my profile picture so my children, family members and friends who would not understand can't find me. Yeah seems like a lot of work but it is worth it to me. I have a few members from here on my page.