Could you do what your partner does?

[mina]

Thanks for all the great responses!

Sometimes I've thwacked my dom in play, not very hard at all, but enough to make him go 'ow!'. Then I laugh at him, say 'aw, muffin', similar bratty platitudes.

LOL that's so cute!

Someone once told me that it takes a special mind set to be a Sadist... inflict pain on the one you love and still be able to look at them over the breakfast table the next morning without regret...

Hmm yeah... that's very interesting. I guess our mindsets are opposite then? Because I have no problem with the one I love inflicting pain on me, but I could never bring myself to inflict pain on someone I was in love with.

The reason for the first is those who endure pain during play develop a pain tolerance to the pain that is given them.

*nods* That makes sense.

I've thought about this question before when a r/l sub suddenly tried to switch on me and whacked me. I must say that I nearly tore her arm off as I felt so affronted. I was amazed at how I reacted as I'm actually not very aggressive, so got to considering the switching idea.

lol! Interesting...